I am a guy, 30 studying and thinking "I should just leave and go abroad or make a radical change" trying to find work while studying has become so hard in my small town that I feel I have to move to get work. I called around a few places and I asked a few friends how to turn your life around and they said "just move away from everyone you know and don't speak to them again". That feels radical for me. I don't have a grudge towards anyone but I am thinking if I don't soon I might have a grudge.