Someone Anonymous Confessed on  Marriage, @ September 20th, 2006

Feelings for someone else?

I am 24 years old and have been married for a year and half. We have know eachother for 11 years now. We dated for almost 3 years. I convinced him to get married. So we eloped in vegas. Now after a year and a half I am thinking maybe we did get married too young, and quickly. The thing that is making me think this way is that i went off for the weekend to work on a movie set, without him. And started to have feelings for someone else. It was completely innocent. The guy knew I was married, we would talk about it sometimes, and he was in a serious relationship. But I found myself trying to be near him. A lot. I didn’t act on my feelings. They were just there. Was this completely wrong?


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  • me
    (tobtruemuffinman) that is true.
  • CarrieZ
    Okay. It's quite usual feelings as a person sometimes need another kind of drink.

    What I kindly remind you is that give yourself a period of time ALONE calmly think your current life status before you are addicted to this brand-new drink. What's your desire in your deep heart? Be bored of small life circle or your marriage or ...?

    Your marriage is like fairy tales which is extremely rare in this substantial world. You both deserve to be proud of yourselves. It is definitely the stable happiness that brings you into searching for a stimulating factor which might produce unknown result. (Please pay highly attention that the man know you are married, in another words, know you have a happy marriage.) Although all of us have no divine power know another one's real intention, we have our own acute judgement. Just use it and then make wise decision. As a mature woman, I think you will take the RIGHT choice. I will surely pray for that.
  • truemuffinman
    //marriage is eternal//

    Oh, give me a friggin break. Marriaged people divorce, break up, stop talking to eachother, and alienhate daily. Marriage is almost, ALMOST never eternal.
  • me
    give it time and these feelings will pass... this man is married and he has a beautiful wife at home (this also applies to YOUR husband) marriage is eternal
  • truemuffinman
    Not at all. Sometimes your body just wants change.
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