From reddit: Nobody ever told me I was a douchebag.
"I'm alright now. Since moving far away from everyone I've ever known, I've become a good man, a good father, I'm concerned for other people and I'm in a very salvageable marriage. I love my family and old friends and have strong sentimental feelings for them but I don't really want to go back. I can see now what a self-asborbed, narcissistic, ar..."