From reddit: It upsets me [21F] that my boyfriend [21M] masturbates and sometimes wish he wouldn't. Deep down, I know it's my own self-esteem that makes me feel this way - I wish I could love myself more.
"I've been with my boyfriend 4 years and despite our ups and downs, we have a great relationship. We do live together, but aren't with each other all the time. I don't stop him from masturbating or anything crazy like that, but it does hurt me knowing that he is getting off to other women.
I can't help it but it makes me feel bad about myself. Some..."