"I'm in a really hard spot. I've been with this guy, H, for nine years now (married for 2). We don't have kids. We do have 4 pets. My issue is this: I love him, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him anymore, not after everything he's done.
I have to explain from the very beginning. I was fresh out of high school when we met. I was ..."