From reddit: My mom would call what she did discipline. It was abuse.
" Title says it really. I'm a broken adult with anxiety disorders, no self esteem, and many other quirks and idiosyncrasies because of you, mom. I'm always trying to please people and feel like my happiness is tied to theirs so fuck you for that. I don't feel worth anyone's time or energy because you made me feel worthless. What you did wasn't okay...."