"TL;DR version: my wife of roughly 18 months (I know, not long) went, in 9 days, from 'I want to take a break' to 'I don't want counseling I just want out'. Things were more or less amicable.
I've never hated anyone as strongly while also still loving them. This isn't a movie. I'm not going to find her and prove something to her; she's made her wi..."