I have only had sex less then the digets on one hand each time being...

raped dirtily for hours was not my idea of fun. but then I had nothing much to compare it to anyway. as a virgin female when this happened, all I can say is its not a woman's fantasy to go through this, it might be a mans but its not a females. I was really after normalizing concepts like dates out before sex and being treated like important to the guy, flowers and a ring and necklance (it doesn't have to be expensive), dinners and fun times, going out and getting dressed up to a night out on the town as they say, sharing time going out together like walking the dog or going to the park or gym together, going out and staying over and sleep overs and some party fun and this guy couldn't give me those things that I wanted. like I wanted a guy with me holding my hand when I was sick and when I was wanting some fun. life is not just a carasel ride you know and this guy couldn't give me what a better man could, who had time to give me not just dirty raw vulgar agro wrestling weirdo sex on top of cupboard and I didn't know what to do. I didn't know what to say or do sexually, what was right or wrong, I just didn't know!

By Anonymous on General,