Throwaway and long post. TL;DR : After I told him I'm gay, my pastor suggested...

performing oral sex on me to "extract" my homosexuality. It went on form when I was 15 to 16, until he wanted more and I realized something was wrong. I pretended to be healed, avoided him for two years, then moved for college - during which I realized he was manipulating me. Now, at 23, when I visited home and saw him again, I wanted to confront him but couldn't. He tried to persuade me into sex again, I refused. I realized I'm more affected by it than I thought and am thinking about starting therapy. Edit : for context...

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