I hate my husband My husband has reduced the amount of effort he makes in our relationship over the last three years whereas I’ve improved and invested more as time passed. I feel like this trend continuing will drive us apart as he understands less and less about me and i become more and more resentful. He is self-serving and oblivious to my needs, as well as not actually tending to my needs when he does understand them. I can’t imagine that he can be as limited as that so he must be doing what he does out of choice. I feel like he doesn’t love me as much anymore. I wish I could have our early marriage days back and I wish it wasn’t like this. I feel so broken and irreparable. I feel like I hate him but what that actually means is that i just feel like a scared and lonely little child. I wish he lived me enough to be nice to me and care about me