What to do with my husband?

Hello all I'm a married woman, got 2 kids, the problem is that mu husband does not like normal or (standard) sex with me, and he prefers (Anal sex) only That would not be a problem if he was asking me once in a while, as a change, but the problem he asks for it every time we sleep together, and he enjoys it more, and leave me in a state of (some pain) and emotional feelings, he never cares about my feelings and desires After the intercourse i cry a lot, not because of the pain, but because my body (and vagina) suffers alot of abduction and neglect I  tried talking to him, but he refuses any solution i love him and want to make him happy, but i suffer too thank you all