like I said. i now question if kens so called other affairs were not date rapes set up by his mates rates helpers and to him he calls it affairs but its another story to the women. afterall he had nothing going for him at all. he was dull as cement and control freak and was at least in his 40s when I met him in my 20s. so its not like he was the virgin. I never wanted this to be in public eye. I kept my abuse issues private but after being abused so much and so help then I dobbed everyone in and I still do today. I bind my time and then I go people. people like ken are nothing to me. I have bigger fish to fry and more important issues then abuse or assault from years ago. I am not living in the past. so if you know what is good for you, you will get out now. there is nothing to win and never was anything to win in all this. the biggest asshole is dave and relatives. but you couldn't let it rest cuz you are the narc and you need this supply of rubbish but when I leave here you will have to get it somewhere else you hopeless sad sick creature of dirt.