I'm a college graduating student and I have a boyfriend you haven't even graduated highschool. he's now 17 and i'm 20. I met him during my OJT at a certain farm where he works as a hogman. (he's under child labor) he stopped studying because he was not serious about school and life. he loves to go out and enjoy everything. he even became addict. but then time comes when he was so unsatisfied with his life that is why he decided to work in the farm. during my OJT, we became so close that we both fell in love w/ each other. he courted me when our OJT was done and we're on a long distance relationship. i was so happy having him and so was he. he even told me that he'll go back to school because I gave him the reason to be better in life. i inspire him. he changed. he stopped smoking and using marijuana. and as a girlfriend, i was very happy. bu then, dark days came when he changed. he was so selfish, irritable, easily get jealous, narrow minded, have trust issues, understandable, and most importantly, childish. i don't know why, but he loves playing prank with me, joking around w/ me and not just ordinary jokes but hurting. he always makes me feel like he has another woman, he's not serious w/ me and everytime we're talking, he easily puts down the phone. it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. he always tells me that he's phone is not in good condition. but even texting me using his number's friends, he cannot even do. i loss faith w/ him. but i tried to ask his friend and mine w/c his co worker if my boyfriend has another woman, and he simply told me that 'NO, he's so serious w/ you, he even changed because of you'. so if this is true, then why does he act so weird? i mean, is he doing that for purpose? or he's just to childish? he's too young for a serious relationship? plz help me! thank you