husband is risking his life over in Iraq and your having sex with someone else. You can not take back what you did now. I think you should talk to the friend you had sex with and tell him that it will neve happen again, than you should come clean with your husband, he has the right to know, maybe you and your husband can go to counseling together to help you 2 through it, if you both plan on staying together. Be honest with your husband TELL HIM!

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Cheated on my wife In 2007 i went out with some friends to a bar, after a few drinks some of us decided to head to a club. I had already had several drinks by the time we got to the club. Over the previous few weeks my wife and I had been arguing a lot and I was feeling pretty fed up by this point. At the club I met this hot young blonde chick, I bought her some drinks and before long we started kissing. At the end of the evening she asked me to come back to her flat, I jumped into a cab with her at which point she shoved my hand down the back of her skirt! Once we got back to her flat on thing led to another and well I'll leave the details to your imagination. Anyway the next day I left her flat and I felt pretty guilty but now I'm not and feel proud that at almost 40 I managed to screw a chick 20 years younger than me!

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Obsessing About the Past My wife and I have been married for three years. We work for the same company, and initially met while working on a project together about four years ago. She is very caring, loving, and our s life is fantastic. She is highly orgasmic, and I love making love to her. I also truly believe that she has been faithful to me the whole time we have been together. Well, until last week everything was great. While enjoying a bottle of wine and watching a situation comedy, the topic on the television turned to having threesomes. I nonchalantly asked my wife if she had ever partaken in one. She replied, “You really want to know?” I said yes. Well, she proceeded to state that she indeed had been in one before, about a year before we started seeing each other. Ok, I thought, no problem, because it was before we were together. I could also deal with the fact that the threesome in question was a MMF scenario, with her pleasing two guys. She also admitted that the experience was lovely and hot, although she stated that she would never do it again. Now here is the problem: one of the guys with whom she had the threesome is not only one of my current co-workers, but is the guy who sits in the cube next to me. F-A. It couldn’t be some anonymous dude from some anonymous place, but rather the guy who f works next to me. Now every time I see him, I have visions of him f my wife doggy, blowing his creamy load into her p (all while she is in the throes of a howling o*), while his buddy is on the other end jerking out a load on my wife’s face. I can’t get this image out of my head. I know it is wrong to hold this matter against my wife (it was before we were together, after all), but it is getting damn hard to go to work and concentrate on anything else, when I work next to the man who has experienced working over my wife in a raunchy threeway. I feel “retroactively cuckolded,” although I know that is irrational. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop obsessing about this and move beyond this issue?

Obsessing About the Past My wife and I have been married for three years. We work for the same comp...

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I JUST LOVE HOW MY NOW EX BOYFRIEND HAS A SILVER TONGUE AND WILL SAY ANYTHING TO MAKE PEOPLE THINK HE HAS CHANGED JUST BECAUSE I FINALLY GOT THE COURAGE TO LEAVE HIM. I GAVE HIM 5 YEARS OF WASTED AIR BASICALLY AND WHAT I GET IS MY DOGS ABUSED AND MY FOOT ALMOST BROKEN FOR WANTING TO PROTECT MY GIRLS. HE IS AN ALCOHOLIC HE SAID HE NEVER WANTED TO CHANGE WOULD DRINK A GALLON OF ALCOHOL A DAY CLAIMING HE WAS INVINCIBLE. I COULD NOT EVEN PLAY VIDEO GAMES WITH HIM ANYMORE BECAUSE IF HE GOT EVEN SECOND PLACE IN LETS SAY MARIO KART WII OR HE GETS HIT WITH BLUE TURTLES A LIGHTNING BOLT AND THREE RED TURTLES…SOMETHING SIMPLE LIKE THAT HE WOULD POUT AND THROW THE BIGGEST TANTRUM YOU HAVE EVER SEEN A 26 YEAR OLD MAN MAKE. HE APPARENTLY HAS NOT LIKED MY COOKING FOR 5 YEARS. HE SAID HE COULDNT DIGEST IT. NOW HE APPARENTLY TOLD MY GRANDMA THAT HE IS GOING TO AA MEETINGS TODAY WHICH IS BULL FLOP. I HAVE TRIED FOR 5 YEARS TO GO WITH HIM BUT HE SAYS "AA MEETINGS ARE FOR QUITTERS""AA MEETINGS ARE NOT FOR ME" WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE. I JUST TOLD MY GRANDMA HE WILL SAY ANYTHING TO MAKE ME THINK OR ANYBODY THINK HE HAS CHANGED. WHEN HE MAKES ME PEE MY PANTS MORE THAN ONCE WHILE HE IS DRUNK AND IN MY FACE SAYING IM A B-WORD OR A WHORE AND I CANT WEAR MAKE UP FOR 5 YEARS BECAUSE APPARENTLY ITS LIKE LYING TO HIM EVERYDAY THAT I WEAR IT. AND I HAD TO STRAIGHTEN MY HAIR OR ELSE I LOOK LIKE A HOBO. IM A PRETTY 25 YEAR OLD GIRL. I COULDNT LOOK LIKE A HOBO IF I TRIED. I AM VERY COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF HE WAS NEVER COMFORTABLE WITH ME. IF I BROUGHT SOMETHING UP FROM EVEN A FEW HOURS AGO FOR THE SAKE OF AN ARGUMENT WE WERE HAVING HE WOULD GET MAD SAYING STOP BRINGING THINGS UP FROM THE PAST BUT IT WAS OKAY FOR HIM TO TALK AND COMPARE ME TO THE WOMAN THAT HAS BEEN TATTOOED ON HIS ARM. MY LAST COUPLE OF DAYS WITH HIM BEFORE I GOT THE COURAGE TO LEAVE THE APARTMENT WAS HIM THROWING A PARTY WITH HIS FRIENDS IN THE SPARE BEDROOM GETTING DRUNK OF COURSE AND I COULD HEAR SOME OF THE CONVERSATIONS BETWEEN THE MUSIC PLAYING TALKING CRAP ABOUT ME SAYING HOW HORRIBLE AND LAZY I AM. AGAIN NOT LAZY. I HAVE NURSED HIS DRUNK ASS BACK TO HEALTH. BROUGHT HIM BACK TO LIFE WHEN HE WAS PRONOUNCED LEGALLY DEAD AND YET I DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR HIM AND I DO NOT SUPPORT HIM. I AM JUST DONE FEELING LIKE SOME SORT OF WORM. I AM BETTER THAN THAT. I WENT BACK TO GET A FEW MORE THINGS AND SINCE I HID ONE OF HIS GALLON BOTTLES HE WAS SAYING I OWE HIM THIRTEEN DOLLARS FOR A NEW BOTTLE. I JUST GAVE IT BACK TO HIM AND SAID HAVE A NICE LIFE. AND HE WAS TRYING TO SELL THE LITTLE TELEVISION TO MY FRIEND WHO WAS HELPING ME GET STUFF OUT OF THE APARTMENT FOR ALCOHOL BECAUSE HE HAS NOT GOTTEN PAID YET. HE SAID HE DOESNT NEED ME OR HIS MONEY BUT NOW APPARENTLY HES TRYING TO CHANGE. I DO NOT BELEIVE THAT CRAP FOR A SECOND. HE CAN SAY WHATEVER HE WANTS. HE CHOSE THE RELATIONSHIP HE WANTS AND THAT IS WITH THE ALCOHOL. SO HAVE A NICE LIFE SILVER TONGUE. YOU MADE THIS BED NOW LIE IN IT. I AM NOT YOUR PROBLEM ANYMORE.

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