why don't white men want to marry? they only like thin tall models who look beautiful and come from rich homes who are well educated and whose families can advance their careers and personal ambitions and bank accounts and connections, they want to be envied, men think you should be grateful if they are married if they want to rape you and they are boring and uncivil rude and lack personal character. black men take too many liberties and all I have wanted was a white husband with some charm and class and when I was thin - he should have looked the mirror of me and the man who used me did not look the mirror of me. and I don't want to look the mirror of him or the majority of the men I met who were weird. men should learn to communicate better and I only ever liked the young single tall handsome men anyway not moneyed men.