I'm Tired and sick that he beats on me , and I wish that he he had faith, that I am the good woman he fell in love with. And on the flip side, He is lucky I dont fight back. Because small kids in the house. If he he doesnt learn to love me, I could hate him, he beats me up,... just had to take two weeks off work because I was ashamed.......to show up with black eyes. Two weeeks! That is how long it takes for it to go away.