My wife has maxed out her credit cards again. Then she gets angry that we don't go to fancy dinners, fancy vacations or anything else. I don't want to lose our house over her reckless spending. I do everything I can to cut bills, and live on a shoestring, paying mostly for only things we need (like monthly bills). Is this why people get divorced..to protect themselves from being destroyed b things like this? This is so exhausting to deal with.