ken never liked me humming or singing or expressing emotions and I didn't like his bullying. he basicly said to me I was not allowed to talk about anyone from my past and I had no past til I met him, I was not allowed to talk about other men but he said he would "when I got a man he would check out a guy for me make sure she was alright for me" and I thought this was the most stupidest controlling mental bullying thing I had ever heard. I didn't sign up for that rubbish!