kelly and anita and a lot of people with disability are verbally, suggestibily, secretivitly very violent in mind and words and deeds and abusive to other people with less obvious disability. I am sure they are aware of what they are doing. they have been very used to playing two faced abusive games and go from man to man successive marriages and partners and walking over people, I seen the same thing in sally, this woman who is supposed to have had a serious accident that needs to go bungy jumping if she had such bad neck injuries like I did why does she feel the need to be so abusive and uncaring to people who have been through illness and abuse? I feel imposed apon that I have to lower myself to be abusive back - my counsellor told me to- so did the police make it clear to people you have gone without a husband and child and career and been abused and ill and you don't have to take their bullying and them trying to walk over me. that is why I rang that consultants office and said after the way you spoke to me I have been ill and I don't appreciate this, this is not businesslike and its rude and what gives a company the right to penalise people over being ill missing an appointment, its like they are robbing you and make out its some crime to be ill or have a accident or cancel an appointment. I don't always have money even to pay for the bus fair believe it or not.