mum said to make it clear to melissa that doing baby baskets is too upsetting to me right now not being allowed to be a mother and have my own baby and mum said don't take her shit, make it clear to her it hurts you as much as you can at her and put her on the spot!!!! mum said its just adding insult to injury and salt to an open wound expecting me to do those things when no one has ever helped me have those things. and make it clear to melissa that it has hurt you.