I think it's over There are days where I'm stress feel and can allow myself to feel love for my husband. But some days, he just is so naive and ignorant to adult life. He spends money on motorcycles, he even took out a $900 cash advance on a credit card to purchase one he said he'll flip in the fall. Never asked me, just came home looking for a ramp to hoist the bike onto his truck. When I confronted him about it later, he said it was his money to take. We don't even have milk in the fridge. I thought marriage was suppose to be about us and our? We have a 2 year old together, but I feel so much better when it's just me, the baby and our dog. My husband causes me great stress, which in turn makes me agitated and cruel towards him. I don't want to live like this forever and we've been to counseling before about the money issues, but I don't see us ever becoming a team. His family doesn't like me and the feeling is mutual, so I don't see how divorce would be that bad. During a recent argument, I said I was going to divorce him in two years, but he ignored me. I'm pretty certain on that time period though.