Obsessing About the Past My wife and I have been married for three years. We work for the same company, and initially met while working on a project together about four years ago. She is very caring, loving, and our s** life is fantastic. She is highly orgasmic, and I love making love to her. I also truly believe that she has been faithful to me the whole time we have been together. Well, until last week everything was great. While enjoying a bottle of wine and watching a situation comedy, the topic on the television turned to having threesomes. I nonchalantly asked my wife if she had ever partaken in one. She replied, “You really want to know?” I said yes. Well, she proceeded to state that she indeed had been in one before, about a year before we started seeing each other. Ok, I thought, no problem, because it was before we were together. I could also deal with the fact that the threesome in question was a MMF scenario, with her pleasing two guys. She also admitted that the experience was lovely and hot, although she stated that she would never do it again. Now here is the problem: one of the guys with whom she had the threesome is not only one of my current co-workers, but is the guy who sits in the cube next to me. F******-A. It couldn’t be some anonymous dude from some anonymous place, but rather the guy who f****** works next to me. Now every time I see him, I have visions of him f****** my wife doggy, blowing his creamy load into her p**** (all while she is in the throes of a howling o*****), while his buddy is on the other end jerking out a load on my wife’s face. I can’t get this image out of my head. I know it is wrong to hold this matter against my wife (it was before we were together, after all), but it is getting damn hard to go to work and concentrate on anything else, when I work next to the man who has experienced working over my wife in a raunchy threeway. I feel “retroactively cuckolded,” although I know that is irrational. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop obsessing about this and move beyond this issue?

I had a one night stand I'm in my late 20's, been married for 4 years. I can't share this with anyone I know in real life, so I just need to talk about it here. I cheated on my husband back in February. The other man (let's call him Greg) lives in our condo building. We met at our building's gym last summer. We used to see each other in there often and started to make small talk. He is very attractive and I started forming a small crush on him. No big deal I thought, every married person has crushes. Well it started to get out of hand. We talked more and more at the gym. I started to time my workout so I know he would be there. I was getting more and more attracted to Greg. I started fantasizing about him at work. It happened in late Feb on a Thurs night. My husband was out of town on a business trip. I went to the gym after work and Greg was there. We worked out and flirted. He told me about a fitness book I should read, and asked if I wanted to pick it up. We went to his condo straight from the gym to get the book. Lots of flirting going on. I wait for him to make a move, but he doesn't. So completely out of character for me, I make the first move- I ask him if he wants to take a shower with me. We both get naked and in the shower, and don't waste a second. We are totally going at it- the sex was better than i even fantasized about. I spend the night and we have sex in the morning too. We agree to keep it all a secret. Of course, I wanted to see him more. The sex was amazing and I wanted more. But he ignored me. It was probably for the best, because I'm sure I would have been caught if I kept sleeping with him. So in the end, I still feel some guilt, but honestly I have good memories of that night too. I haven't told my husband and don't plan on it. Is that bad? Anyway it felt good to get this off my chest.

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My wife Lynn, was a virgin when we met at the age of 18, She had been touch by a guy but never penetrated, After 7 years of marriage I had an affair that she found out about. Her "revenge" was that I had to arrange for her to have a wild night of sex. I approached my cousin's wife asking for her help, I knew that she had several "male friends". She was very willing to help have Lynn screwed. She suggested a guy named Cory, saying he was very large and had great stamina, I talked with Cory on the phone, telling him what Lynn wanted. He asked if anything was off limits, I said only that he not cum in her. A date was arranged for the following weekend. Lynn was eager and I remember how she spent an hour soaking in the tub getting ready. When she left in our van, she looked wonderful. I really thought she'd back out. The arrangement was she would go meet him, bring him back and park in our driveway. I would be listening and watching from a bedroom window, listening to her having sex I was worried after almost 2 hours she hadn't come back, thinking that was a sign of her backing out. Then I saw the van approach our house. It wasn't long before I could hear the sounds of him pounding her. She kept yelling for him to fuck her harder, I could hear her cum time after time. About 20 minutes later I heard her say she had to use the bathroom. She came to where I was, her face and arms were bright red. She asked if I saw them and was disappointed when I said no, only the sounds. She informed me they had done it twice before they came back! I had to leave to go to my job working the grave yard shift. All night long its all I thought about. The next morning she told me they did it 8 times that night, in every hole. I thought it was over. A week later she informed me she had made another date with him. I begged her not to go. She promised she'd go tell him it was off and come right back. After an hour passed I knew she had gone. I knew where she was meeting him and went to the area. Sure enough her van was there, but they took his. I left a note calling her a whore. The next morning she came home looking like shit. Her clothing was wrinkled and dirty. She said again he used her completely in ever hole, but this time he came in her! Mouth, ass and cunt........all filled. I asked her how she could do that, not being on the pill and bareback. She replied that was what she wanted. She informed me that he took her to a friends apartment where there wasa water bed. She said they stayed there and fuck ed all night. I asked about the friend. She claimed the friend watched but didn't join in. I called her a liar. She informed me the friend was a black guy. I told her no more, she had her revenge. She promised no more. 3 months later she had to have an abortion. And to this day I believe she continued to be fucked by him. I ran into him at a bar where I bought him several rounds. He described the house we lived in......Its the house we owned some 20 years after the original episode.........He also informed m e that Lynn loved to have my Sharona on while having sex. Our marriage recently ended. She of course claims she had him only on 2 nights......what do u think.please comment

My wife Lynn, was a virgin when we met at the age of 18, She had been touch by a guy but never penet...

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I have been with a man for 13 years, engaged for 8 years. We have plenty of issues and problems with fidelity and trust....but now the tables are turned. He wants to marry me and now I'm the one having the affair!! This other man is INCREDIBLE, down to earth, listens, loves me for who I am, appreciative and i think I'm in love with him. The sex is unlike anything I have ever experienced before, the emotional connection is unimaginable. I actually had tears in my eyes from the emotions. I feel nothing with my spouse. i dream that me and my teacher are making love in a movie cinema.

I have been with a man for 13 years, engaged for 8 years. We have plenty of issues and problems wit...

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