We may be getting a divorce after she caught us I have a wonderful wife and we have been married for nine years now. She does not have the s** drive that I have, and I have a cousin who is in the same situation. My cousin and I have had s** since we were fourteen. We did not stop when she got married. We kept going two years later when I got married. Her husband and I are buddies and she has been friends with my wife. So that made it easy for my cousin and I to keep this going. My wife came home from work Yesterday when my cousin and I were in our motor home. I had no idea she had come home sick. She wondered where I was and why her car was in my shop parking lot. She opened the motor home door and heard us. She walked in softly and stood at the door watching. When I looked in the mirror I saw her standing there. I did NOT want to turn around, and my cousin as me what was wrong, why i stopped, than said come one i want a big one F--k me hard. That made a bad situation worse. She threw the coffee maker at us and walked out. I worried she might get a gun and shoot me or us, so I got dressed and in the house pretty quick. She was in the bathroom with the door open. My cousin went in and talked with her. She told her everything. That was had done this since we were young. that she and her husband had s** issues that made her want s**. But she did not want to damage our marriage. My wife was very calm for some reason. She talked with me calmly but she is far from happy. She slept in the guest room and ask if i wanted a divorce. I said no, and now she is wrestling with the idea is she wants to tell my cousins husband or not. Its pretty tough around here right now. and I fear what will happen if she tells him. He could snap and kill us all, or just leave town and my cousin alone with nothing. I remember all the s** that she and i have had, Not all of that combined is enough to make up for the fear I have of loosing my wife and my life. Loosing my cousin and her husband as our friends. Now we must sit through dinner tomorrow night, our usually week night dinner together. I am a dumbass for sure.

My wofe was treated like s* growing up I married a woman who is a great wife and mother. She works hard and helps me provide for our family. We have a lovely son and daughter. My wife was the product of an unsuccessful relationship. Her mother married another man who resented my future wifes presence. All of her childhood she was second fiddle in the family as the man and my wifes mother favored their two other children. She was told she would have to leave the house at age 18. Ok my daughter graduated high school and she joined the army not knowing what else to do. That is where I met her. We married and after our hitch was up we both got jobs and settled down. I got an education on the GI bill as did she. We eventually had two children. In the meantime her mother wants to get in touch with her again. It seems both of her other children are alcoholic and drug addicts in and out of jail and rehab facilities. Her hubby lets them live in his house and they are making my wifes mothers life pure H. She depends on her husband for her support so she can't divorce him. I also suspect hes abusive. So here she is wanting to be a part of my wifes life again. I told her that if it was left up to me I;d say no. I told her that she was responsible for the situation between her and her daughter. My mother told her that she could visit only under supervision as she didn't want her mother to completely bond with our children. The lady began crying and hung up the phone. A few minutes later the phone rang again and my wifes mothers husband was on the line asking what the H was wrong with his wife. I said "Your whats wrong with her you stupid ignorant hick". I told him what scum I thought he was and that if he wasn't such a stupid old hillbilly of a redneck j* I'd beat the s*** out of him. I told him that if either of his white trash children ever darkened my door they would live to regret it. He said something stupid and I hung up on him. I didn't hear what he had to say as I hung up in mid sentence. Needless to say he didn't bother us again. I'm twentyfive years younger than him and half a head taller. My wifes mother hasn't shown up yet and I hope she never does again.

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