I caught my husband in our bedroom wearing my pantyhose and

I caught my husband in our bedroom wearing my pantyhose and bra, and putting lipstick i was shocked, i asked him why? he said it makes him happy and he feels hot he refuses to go to a therapist, he said this is normal and a lot of men do this i don't want to lose him, but i can't stand this situation what to do? p.s. we have 3 kids, i can't think of a divorce, beside i love my husband