the other day I started the washing up because the dishwasher is broken and like my father was making big issue about how only 1 person can fit in the kitchen at a time and so I walked out and he was doing his usual slave act like "I have to do this cleaning up and the washing up has to be done to a strict order" glasses first then cultery, then plates and bowls and cups and pans or pots, I said "I don't have time for that nonsense once the suds are in the grease comes off the same most times" and he made such a issue and argument over it I left it for him and said " well then get your ass out there and slave drive yourself" and he got so offended and I said it more as a throw off at him. he was like "now there is no need to speak to me like that"... I just walked away.