Boyfriend issues? Ok well I have been dating the love of my life for quite some time (4 months in August) and we've been planning and talking marriage and children and such. Well he's gone ALL the time and he says he hates to leave because he has 'things to do' and I feel like other things are more important than me to him. And from the lengths of time that he's gone I can just feel like he's doing something other than what he says. I feel like he's seeing another girl. But when I bring it up he says "There's no one better for me baby!", and I feel all bad for accusing him but yet he still leaves for long periods of time and often doesn't tell me when he's leaving or why. And the thing that bugs me most is although he gets really defensive and protective over me he's like that to EVERY girl and I swear he flirts with them! It drives me crazy not knowing weather he's cheating or not! I love him to pieces and then it will be days or sometimes weeks before he emails or texts me....and I'm starting to wonder if I'm enough for him or if he wants someone else, I've asked him before and he always says the same thing "You're more than plenty for me baby!", and I've always been faithful and honest. I don't know if this is just me having trust issues since I've been cheated on before or what but I could really use some advice. Thanks!
Boyfriend issues? Ok well I have been dating the love of my life for quite some time (4 months in August) and we've been planning and talking marriage and children and such. Well he's gone ALL the time and he says he hates to leave because he has 'things to do' and I feel like other things are more important than me to him. And from the lengths of time that he's gone I can just feel like he's doing something other than what he says. I feel like he's seeing another girl. But when I bring it up he says "There's no one better for me baby!", and I feel all bad for accusing him but yet he still leaves for long periods of time and often doesn't tell me when he's leaving or why. And the thing that bugs me most is although he gets really defensive and protective over me he's like that to EVERY girl and I swear he flirts with them! It drives me crazy not knowing weather he's cheating or not! I love him to pieces and then it will be days or sometimes weeks before he emails or texts me....and I'm starting to wonder if I'm enough for him or if he wants someone else, I've asked him before and he always says the same thing "You're more than plenty for me baby!", and I've always been faithful and honest. I don't know if this is just me having trust issues since I've been cheated on before or what but I could really use some advice. Thanks!