I've been with my wife for 5 years and for the good part of it I have been unhappy. I was about end it within the first year when she told me she was pregnant. We have a son who is my whole world. He is very close to me and I could not bare not seeing him everyday. I know if we split my wife would make it as difficult as possible to see him and cripple me financially. So those are the reasons I stay with her. She is very beautiful so gets a lot of attention from men. A few years ago she received a valentines card. That night I found her talking on facebook with numerous men trying to find out who had sent it. One was an ex who is was telling she still loved, another she was virtually asking to have an affair with. She played it all down and made out I was being paranoid. Since I have found calls to ex boyfriends, flirty messages to other guys, late nights with terrible excuses. The latest one though is she went to a BBQ one lunchtime and came back the next day. On her facebook was a picture of a guys penis and she had a graze on her forearm that looked like a friction burn to me. She always says I'm overreacting, am I? Today I found contraceptive pills in her dressing gown pocket, I've been sterilised for 3 years. Is it all in my mind or am I right in thinking shes playing away?

I've been with my wife for 5 years and for the good part of it I have been unhappy. I was about end it within the first year when she told me she was pregnant. We have a son who is my whole world. He is very close to me and I could not bare not seeing him everyday. I know if we split my wife would make it as difficult as possible to see him and cripple me financially. So those are the reasons I stay with her. She is very beautiful so gets a lot of attention from men. A few years ago she received a valentines card. That night I found her talking on facebook with numerous men trying to find out who had sent it. One was an ex who is was telling she still loved, another she was virtually asking to have an affair with. She played it all down and made out I was being paranoid. Since I have found calls to ex boyfriends, flirty messages to other guys, late nights with terrible excuses. The latest one though is she went to a BBQ one lunchtime and came back the next day. On her facebook was a picture of a guys penis and she had a graze on her forearm that looked like a friction burn to me. She always says I'm overreacting, am I? Today I found contraceptive pills in her dressing gown pocket, I've been sterilised for 3 years. Is it all in my mind or am I right in thinking shes playing away?
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You read me the riot act when your daughter and I split up. Just a few things I need to put in writing because if I tell you myself, I will probably want to strangle you or her. You were concerned that I might be carousing with loose women after we separated. Are you aware that you daughter left our home and moved in with another man the almost immediately after she left? You can say that he was just a friend but if I had moved in with a woman you would have wanted to cut off my balls with a piece of rusty tin. She never complained about anything to me, there was never a conversation about distress in our relationship. She wouldn't let me call when I needed to talk to her, she cut me off completely. She was lining in another guys house, he provided her with a car, took her out to dinner, etc. Thirty years later he was a loser and I know it but to me at 20 years old, alone, with no one close to me. What was I supposed to do. For me, 30 years later, hindsight is 20/20, if I had it to do over I would do some things differently. But your daughter was wrong in doing what she did, now on her 3rd husband, I have been married to the same woman for 26 years and have a great job and a wonderful family. You still look at me like gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe when you see me but I got the better end of the deal. The sad part is that your daughter, MDK, was the love of my life, I never cheated on her, never wanted to. I would have done anything to make it work if she had been willing to work with me. I have a wonderful wife but sometimes I can't help but wonder what it would have been like if we had stayed together. The children and grand children. I think she listened to the rest of the west pac widows she worked with instead of talking to me. Taking marital advice from someone who has been divorced 5 times is not very smart, a poor decision as she would say. I will take my life the way it is now.

You read me the riot act when your daughter and I split up. Just a few things I need to put in writi...