how do i get over it??? okay so i am really shy around guys (imma girl). i just cant think of anything to say. the only guys im comfortable around are my cousins(and that will get me nowhere). my friends have tried to hook me up with people. my brother even tried to. i just dont have to courage to be myself around them. its not like i dont think im pretty enough or smart enough or anything. it just like my self esteem goes down the drain as soon as i see them. i dont even have to like them and i get all nervous. how do i get over this???