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I have been observing k behavior for some time. That family dynamic which is so typical of family systems theory with addictive personality types and alcoholism or substance abuse. That child likes a cyclone around her where everyones attention is on her, talking about her, of what she will or might do, over dramatising and catastraphatising the childs behavior and the kid gets off on this. like a trip. she needs to have a specialist focusing on a strengths based analysis and building her positive constructive side up to make her use those emotions and thoughts to problem solve her situations for herself with live. If she was my child I would force her to apologist to her blood uncle and she tell her she deserved the discipline- end of story! with 2 unattentive parents what more will this child do ? all the mother wants to do is spread her legs give birth to another child she will not be able to control while she has a man treating her like a work horse cow nav rather then doing the honorable thing. a father (or lack of more to the point) who acts like an indifferent child or mate, bob has had to stand in to play an authority figure to a child that wants to buck all kinds of authority and its been in more then 2 areas of her life - parents and grandmother, school and more. Her grandmother crying on the phone to me about this kid violently bashing in to her, its like she is RP all over again and if she keeps living this ridiculous lifestyle and choosing violence and court system she will end up behind bars. bob didn't cause broken bones and she has 2 women in her life who live like whores, drinking hard and as dad says R the party chick, and he shakes his head. so what more do you expect her to do. she needs to learn how to be humble and apologies and own up to her faults because we all have them. it doesn't make her a bad person or bob. its just life. K needs to assess herself and were she is headed or she is going to be very alone. the kid needs a parent to listen and be there and give stability to her mental and emotional state. i saw R bash into bob as a kid and she lost control of herself. every parent has felt that way. I always remind myself of the 12 steps in alanon one of them is "Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it." taking responsibility and stop acting like god needing to teach others lessons (as tempting as it might be) rarely works. that is why aa is so good for addictive families. I didn't see k being molested as a child. but her grandfather might have done that to her. only god would know. I wouldn't trust much out of that child's mouth just yet to be honest. I just observe a lot. if I was P I wouldn't allow that tent and sex on my property make the little bastards go somewhere else to cavort and whore around to protect himself. you got to ignore a lot of dysfunctional kids behavior like classroom behavior techniques I studied in educational psychology unit, its like narcissist supply, don't give much supply of attention or hype to certain things cuz you just feed the monster in them. but you can't ignore regular outbursts of graphic violence and on going opposition and deviancy and delinquency or irritable mood swings and graphic displays of vindictiveness on an on going nature. the grandmother should not have taken the kids to the hospital and made strict rules , even if by bribery. k is just going to keep doing this causing tantrum violent outbreaks like a virus pandemic, this whole thing is an epiphany of what I knew would come to pass like clockwork I can predict people. that kid wants attention on her so she triangulated to move it from mother getting attention in hospital bed to her getting xrays and has the dirty hide to say she wants the book thrown at bob. she ought to have a lot more thrown at her. See once again can not handle anyone in an authority role over her. I see the patterns with her. I don't feel sorry for her. I feel sorry for bob. I don't feel sorry for K she needs to grow up and get out of the cot and screwing and she has 2 kids before she couldn't control now another one and it will grow up worse. wait and see, I know I am right there. so long as the attention is on her good or bad she likes it. and like narc supply you got to not feed into it. I made the mistake being polite saying they were pretty and Grandmother is a very vain, conceited woman and all of those girls are, so don't feed it. I could tell you a lot more.

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