I like to shave my groin and ass completely clean, put some lotion in a condom, then roll the condom on my dick as far as i possibly can (sometimes i stretch it over my balls) then wipe the condom lube off of the outside, then put on a pair of soft silky panties. I stroke myself with the panties while i wear them, the feeling of the material tugging on my butt while having a slippery handjob is the best feeling ever. I ill edge myself all day for the best orgasms ive experienced. I highly recommend it.