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is there any way centerlink can help disability pensioners get part time work? the pension is just not enough to live on anymore. I have never owned a credit card and I actually do want to fucking well work and sick of this poverty. I have to fix my parents kitchen and pay for things for them and its always at the expense of my medical treatments or a massage or when I am in pain with back injuries or feet injuries etc and I can't get free things all the time, because medicare is a dead loss and so is a health fund. like i don't know how the govt expect women to lose weight look great, feel great and not even help you much. all these old bags in jobs who are like 60-100 who refuse to leave their jobs just to pay for 3 overseas holidays a year every year give me the complete shits. they have no care for how they are ruining the lives of women in their 40s who have never owned a home or never married. men with education simply will not go out with you if you are not educated and working. I was told this back in my 20s by an american man and I just shut down afterwards and gave up trying because of the money he was calling me lazy and lacking professional accomplishment and no worldly exprience etc. it takes money to afford one, like it takes money to afford to travel or to get education or have a nice hair do or a nice figure and good health. I can't help it that my father was long term unemployed and he has past the curse on to me and other people know what I am talking about how some people are deliberately discriminated against. I have nothing I own nothing. I bought clothes for interviews and jobs that clearly were never good enough to impress anyone enough. I paid for education into many thousands and its not my fault they decided to do the dirty on students. They have destroyed lives, dreams, hope everything. I was told as a mature age student I was taking up a place a young person could use at university when I was in my mid 20s so I left besides I couldn't afford it, i could not afford the fees, books etc. fares, my parents couldn't afford it. i couldn't get work to suit around my class hours and I couldn't afford to move out of home and i still can't. so i am very hurt that these old sluts are ruining younger womens lives.

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is there any way centerlink can help disability pensioners get part time work? the pension is just not enough to live on anymore. I have never owned a credit card and I actually do want to fucking well work and sick of this poverty. I have to fix my parents kitchen and pay for things for them and its always at the expense of my medical treatments or a massage or when I am in pain with back injuries or feet injuries etc and I can't get free things all the time, because medicare is a dead loss and so is a health fund. like i don't know how the govt expect women to lose weight look great, feel great and not even help you much. all these old bags in jobs who are like 60-100 who refuse to leave their jobs just to pay for 3 overseas holidays a year every year give me the complete shits. they have no care for how they are ruining the lives of women in their 40s who have never owned a home or never married. men with education simply will not go out with you if you are not educated and working. I was told this back in my 20s by an american man and I just shut down afterwards and gave up trying because of the money he was calling me lazy and lacking professional accomplishment and no worldly exprience etc. it takes money to afford one, like it takes money to afford to travel or to get education or have a nice hair do or a nice figure and good health. I can't help it that my father was long term unemployed and he has past the curse on to me and other people know what I am talking about how some people are deliberately discriminated against. I have nothing I own nothing. I bought clothes for interviews and jobs that clearly were never good enough to impress anyone enough. I paid for education into many thousands and its not my fault they decided to do the dirty on students. They have destroyed lives, dreams, hope everything. I was told as a mature age student I was taking up a place a young person could use at university when I was in my mid 20s so I left besides I couldn't afford it, i could not afford the fees, books etc. fares, my parents couldn't afford it. i couldn't get work to suit around my class hours and I couldn't afford to move out of home and i still can't. so i am very hurt that these old sluts are ruining younger womens lives.
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Shortly after the move, my mother, who was already a rigid, demanding, impatient, cold bitch, became even more sadistic, twisted and started chain smoking. She went from just being rough with me to full on whacking me, sometimes I think it was just for fun. My father, the doormat that he was, was afraid to say anything to her. As I got older, it only got worse. I was eight years old. I was playing with one of the few other kids my age that lived near us and ended up getting some mud on my dress. When I got home, I showed my mother and apologized, but she slapped me across the face, told me to take it off and proceeded to punish me by putting out her cigarette on my back. That became the normal punishment for "doing something bad" thereafter. My back and soon stomach and upper thighs slowly became riddled with burn scars over the course of two years. My mother would dress me in such a way that they wouldn't be visible, and she convinced me that it was a normal thing that mothers did. To this day I can't stand the smell of cigarette smoke or getting burned. As this was happening, my father, I think because he was getting sick of being so afraid of his wife, began drinking heavily. With his drunk courage, he got into fights nearly every night with my mother. They would sometimes get violent with both of them striking each other. One night, my mother, instead of keeping him away from me, diverted his attention to me. He came up to me, grabbed me firmly by the hand, led me to the kitchen and grabbed a pen knife. He told me we were going to play "connect the dots". He took me to the living room, took off my shirt and held me down. I kicked and screamed and flailed and begged him to stop, but he just told me that "this is a game that kids play with their daddies, honey." He made shallow cuts along my skin with the knife until they connected burn scars as I bawled my eyes out and screamed in pain for him to stop. I was 10. He did this periodically for about the next 8 months, until he made sure every single scar was connected with a new one from the knife. There was then a "quiet" period of about a year and a half where they just fought and the worst I'd get was a slap to the face or a push to the ground. One night, I couldn't take it anymore, and I yelled at them to stop fighting. They did. They then looked at me and told me to mind my business and know my place, among other things. I was pushed down to the ground, and they started to kick me lightly with their feet as I shielded my head. Then they kicked harder. And harder. And harder. They kicked me, and kicked me, and kicked me, and kicked me, all the while yelling all kinds of obscenities at me. At some point they stopped, but I didn't even try to get up. They went right back to fighting, as if nothing had happened, leaving me sobbing in pain on the floor. When I had to go to school the next morning, my mother covered up the majority of the bruises with either clothing or makeup and told me to tell anyone that asked that I fell down the basement stairs taking down laundry. She told me people would understand because this was normal. I asked why I never saw any other kids with bruises, but she slapped me and told me to "Shut up. Shut the fuck up. You think you know better than me? You think you're smarter than me? You're just a child. Listen to your mother. It’s normal." After I had the audacity to call them out that night, my father began to occasionally target me on his drunken rampages again. This time, he'd whip me with his belt, often with the metal part, on my bare back. He would "encourage me" the whole time. "You're doing great, honey! Only two more! You're being such a good girl, not screaming anymore! Next time I’ll only do 5!" That would happen about twice or three times a month for about three years. 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