Judging from the above comments, women want different things. Most people (women and men) want to feel loved, but they also want to feel desirable and attractive, so show your wife that you WANT her. If it takes holding her down and eating her until it hurts, do it! I mean she may not like for you to shove your d*** in her, but it should feel good for her to feel like you CANNOT go another minute without having her! I know that would make me feel good!