K is like fighting darkness and it just gives it more attention and giving it more power, cuz she is just a sneak. never trusted me to confide in me and I keep too many secrets. what you hear from me is not all. but I don't lie and back stab. I believe in standing up for what is right. if you don't stand for something you fall for anything, as they say. I know there is straight up betrayal going on in this dynamic and there has never been a good relationship and never will be sadly and I spent too long focusing on the good in others rather then seeing the truth. I am having all these tower moments and I avoid toxic sabotaging people like my aunty. over the past year I have seen a huge change in her for the worst. She was always a backstabber and putting down other women in the family. Her vanity and there is a spiritual lesson in all this. and I have learnt it. Stop being supportive and so considerate of others and avoid manipulators and cowards.