my cousin is a narcissist to the bone, she never does anything or conversation with you without shoving barbs in secret and she likes reactions out of you. she does deceptive things with fake smiles to your face. she is cunning at never really saying much against you around you but it comes out via her partners and she gets people to attack for her like her mother, father, kids or partners . none the less she is a back stabbing slut anyway. I just have given up trying to think nice thoughts about her or see the good just to save how I look to others. when the true is there for all to see what she has been doing abusing people and her lies and games and how her family has fallen down around her and she thinks she is the winner. she thinks she has the secret and edge on everyone and she thinks she is better then everyone. when she is not even seeing it from others views that I hear who talk about her negatively around me. even her own mother runs her down to me and laughs at her. I don't know what her game is and I don't care anymore. when the police officer rang me I just said "I didn't want to get my cousin in to trouble" but I should have. She has probably caused me a lot of trouble and I never did a thing to harm her life. She likes to get you feeling negative about yourself and feeling like hopeless and no positive future and shallow compliments that are not real and genuine. I told someone I knew she was going to get pregnant soon. I knew she was having an online affair and wanted out and waited to stir her exhusband up. I regret the compliments I gave her. I learnt so much out of this with them and how they can not be trusted at all and what backstabbers they are and they don't know love at all. They find it so hard to say any nice things and be positive about others, and I need to learn to do it back.