My wife walked in I work at home and my wife works outside the home. She leaves early. My neighbor leaves later so sometimes comes over. Well, my wife came back unexpectedly and walked in and witnessed my neighbor pounding me from behind. I was wearing her stockings and I was talking very dirty to him as he pounded me right there in the living room. Wife was completely shocked as were we. we didn't know what to do and she got really nervous and left. She didn't show up to work and won't return my calls. I don;t want to stop my behavior but i don;t want to hurt my wife, which I've obviously done. In my mind the best scenario would be if she thought it was ok, but I think that is a very long shot Not sure what I can do