N said in car to me that R has become such a snob since winning all that money and I said, "really? I had not noticed, R was always like that even when supposedly poor she shopped hard at Myer & DJ's with huge debts her mother paid for all the time. So from where I stand she has not change much! " , "only for the worse with that drinking" N said. "hmm, that and other things" . I said. then "lets change the subject, I could say more but I won't to save my own virtue".