one reason I hunted family away is gossip and over hearing things without trying to eavesdrop. But you get sick of being the meat between the crusties, and I get sick of hearing several sides of the stories and bitching about people I just started avoiding everyone bc I know what they are really like and I figure if they say that about them, god only knows what they say about any of us. I would rather not know. and I am not even asking the questions.