I go on heaps of confession and rant sites and community boards to chat so it mostly because I am lonely and have no friends, you can't call your doctor or support group friends. I have no friends that truely love me for my skills and qualities other then to comiserate together about how abused we have been, how to change but things never do. just cuz I come on a site doesnt mean I am after competition games. I want to find friends and dates like other people do on sites. that clear.