Then within 6mths after his ideal affair that I stress was not my ideal at all, he turns around calling me,” Stupid. “,” Ugly “,” A failure. “. The reasons why I get bullied. Now when I get bullied he acts like he’s been there for me and he has not and no one has been there for me so how can 3 full days equal any romance, one sided for him but not romance to me. I moved on to better concepts and got the dam hell out of there because my parents said that the no one has lived up to what they had expected from them towards all of us as a family and them as a married family with us kids as grown up adults, like people want to see us as kids or that we have equal share and I have no husband.