worst in laws So my inlaws have issues with every freaking thing in my life, from the way i dress up to i eat, to i sleep or work, they want me as their maid and act like a dummy. so they can take out their frustration and say and derogate me anything they want but i should be all smiles and act like nothing ever happened. My husband supported me once and he had to go through the rant of (my fire breathing dragon) my mil about i have snatched her son away and don't do things for her, even though i slog my ass of for them day and night. make food, clean home and look after kids, its not enough, they want me ask them day and night if they want anything else or not, I go on my diets but she doesn't want me to eat healthy or doesn't let me make my sandwiches, she wants me to eat what is being cooked at home and nothing else. she doesn't want me to go to gym, she wants anything happened I should act like a servant because am their son's wife. She reminds me all the time how my father in law helped me out when i was in need and makes me feel worthless.