you have a lot of anger in you joyce and guess what you still own it. you had a lot of violent angry words you used at me in your so called therapy. you need to really look at yourself before you can do therapy on others. I don't put a sign up saying i can do therapy even with all the substance and addiction therapy and other psychology I learnt way back at university in sociology and politics and law and medical units. still I am not an expert which is kind of a good feeling.