I gave up on men 15 years ago and now I am sworn off all their con games and lies and scams. you can't trust them or rely on them unless your are thin, successful, rich and super beautiful and have something they want. and I don't fit into any of those things. let's face it I am a born loser! been scammed out of love and things and money and income and lifestyle and self worth and womanhood all my life.