i like my flat shoes and the occasional wedge shoe and kitten heal shoes but I like comfortable shoes over fashion these days, I spent my whole life never getting the right comfort in a shoe and blisters and bleeds and soreness in the arch and tendonitis. you can see why men have rejected me! sorry to be blunt but you can see why I was not good enough even when I thought I was I really was not. because men have a distored view of what women should be anyway. there is no pleasing them and if they only learnt manners and politeness they would get further. I think people are crazy weird.