Why do people have to like each other. I had a boyfriend for 8 months (T), did everything madly in love, we both confessed at the beginning of this year that we both cheated. i went to a party and got with alot of guys trying to get over him. didnt work one guy started to like me (R) i liked the idea of him i liked the idea of moving on but then there was another guy (N) that drives me crazy but i thought he didnt liek me so i went back to R who i have told myself to liek just to help me move on and then i get told today that N really likes me but i cant hurt R and to make it all better T wont stop texting me.. wanting to see me again.. please someone tell me what to do.