dating sites are expensive fees I can't afford, I have no friends a lot, sometimes I admit I just dump all my friends if I think they have been hurting me behind my back, I tried local clubs, support groups, friend groups, meeting groups, churches, I have considered walking the streets at night because men ignore you during the day. all my other girlfriends could get guys flirting with them offering them dates just at the shop check out que or at the petrol pump or at the traffic lights or college I never could. but considering just going out alone at night to clubs and walking the streets alone to find a friend. its just that I am prone to illness if I go out at night too much but it might be the only option in finding a man to date.