when I pay for my parents to come on a cruise with me I am taking them to a night club in the ship see if they can handle it, if I can for that matter, I really like cabert and swing and jazz mixture of music and some classical and just a cocktail or tea/coffee thing but I would take them to try a neon light disco I seen some aged people in one on cruise having a great time. if we don't like it we can leave and find some other thing. sometimes I like nightclubs but I don't do them much I always felt fearful going in and get nervous cuz of the smell of alcohol and guys get so drunk and you want to dance and meet some guys sure but that is why I like the smooth 1920s style clubs and music as well because I like variety! I can go from place to another.