i hate men who expect the girl to do all the work in a relationship like starting the relationship he never makes a move, he takes forever to work out you think he is hot, he waits for you to call him and chase him. he chases skirty women from upper classes who have posh jobs and makes you feel as if you are not good enough for him. the message is clear if he thinks you are a door mat then that is all you are too him and he will just wipe his shoes on you and walk over you and walk past you and forget you exist. I have to find someone else magnetic.