I tried craigslist and escort agencies for high class model men that charge about $2,000 a night for dinner or sex and he will do threesomes and snm but not my thing, he is average looking really and I have seen better more attractive men as waiters quite honestly. tried the personal ads in papers for blind dates and wondered should I try a spinster ball? but they are so dear. I used to pay people to talk to me and go out with me sometimes. I paid people to go places with me so I don't have a problem at all hiring a escort for dinner or sex even so long as he is hot because I don't want garbage, I passed up a hot male muscle builders massage offer about 14 years ago out of fear because I never had a male model massage me in the complete nude and he wanted to do that and was a body builder but I said no. I passed up a guy who drank cocktails in the pool at night because he didn't seem honest and genuine. I rang my friend and she told me not to go out with the craigslist and personal ad types without my mother and she ment it! so I didn't go then I found out he was a liar and had kids and married and divorced. I don't want someone with kids. god no!