i noticed this in joyce and a lot of weird people I have met- this concept of needing to "freak their ego out"! avoid those people on drugs, or over compasionate and over friendly who ask lots of questions and touch their hair lot and do pout like a trout selfy posses, avoid people who need far out experiences to enjoy being themselves. I got rid of sally because i could see she was a thrill seeker with her bungy jumping after car accident injuries she claims, I told my doctor I could see her doing a pattern a lot of women do is copying and making out they are just like you and they hone in on your needs and wants and make them theirs, beware of the gold-dinger, yes, but also beware of the evil twin god-dingleberry ringer. full of motives and money and looking for a new victim.