My husband is a cross dresser. We have been married over 4 years. He told me when we started dating about his alter ego and at the time it didn't bother me. I told him I didn't know how I would feel until I was in the situation since I had never been around a cross dresser before. Over time it has started bothering me more and more. When I get home from work he is all dressed up, make up, everything. He spends more time in the bathroom than I ever thought about. I love him very much as a man but it is getting difficult because he still tries to be affectionate while he is a she and that is a really big turn off. I grew up in a very religious family and for a while I have not been living "the" life of a religious person. I feel pulled between my religious beliefs and staying with my husband. I don't have anyone to talk to about it because most of the people I know are through him. I feel bad that it bothers me but I don't know where to go from here. Lately it has gotten much worse. He almost always wears women's underpants even to work.